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05 February 2007

The Virgo Mom - Uptight and Proud

My son tells me last night, out of the blue, after seeing something on TV about a little girl who was doing well in school --- "Mom, I forgot to tell you...I'm in the Top 10 [in the Grade 4 level]"

And this was something he learned a few weeks back.

Me: No note? No certificate, nothing from the teacher? [The school only holds the Recognition Program at the end of the school year]
Son: No....just my name on the bulletin board. Ah...yes, I forgot, there is a note. [goes to his room to get something, comes back to our room to hand it...crumpled piece of crap...like garbage]
Me: What's this?
Son: My certificate
Me: Crumpled?!
Son: I'm sorry...[does that sorry face of his, one that melts my heart instantly].....but you love me anyway.... because I did well. [gave me a kiss and a hug]

I frankly did not know whether to be amused or to be angry.

Amused because -- to his credit, he really did well. And I think he did well without my help but with my constant nagging. :D

My son isn't a consistent Top 10 placer. He slips out and slides into the list... back and forth, back and forth. But I do know that he did very well on his own, for this quarter, as I tried to encourage him to be self-reliant. And that means doing his homework all his own, without any help from me. I was just there to nag... and help him establish a study routine, of course.

I am greatly amused because... for all the nagging that I did (and I tell you, I drove myself deaf too!) something good came out of it. There are days when it seems frustrating to me, as if my son never listens or nothing gets registered in that brain of his. So I keep saying the same thing, over and over, like a broken record. I nag. But, my god, now I know there's a result! And I hope he'll appreciate this when he grows up.

What doesn't work, for now though, is my nagging for him to be neat and orderly. My 9-year old is someone I could not call masinop.

masinop = neat
neat adj.
1 clean and in order: maayos, malinis at maayos
2 able to and willing to keep things in or- der: mapag-ayos, masinop, maimis
3 well-formed: maayos, nasa ayos, hustung-husto ang ayos

And he knows that. That's something that gets to me very badly (Me --- a typical Virgo who likes things neat and orderly). And that's also something we fight about all the time.

And that's why I didn't know if I should be amused or angry knowing that an important piece of paper he handed me is now a piece of garbage. :D

And so...once again, I have something to add to his scrapbook --- a compilation of all his achievements in school since he started going to one in the year 2000; be it a perfect score, a simple recognition from a subject teacher, a certificate from winning a contest or the bigger stuff - awards and scholastic recognitions.

Which, to be honest, is also actually a collection of either teared, stained, crumpled or folded certificates.

My Mommy personality is going, "Yey!"

My Virgo personality is going mad.

The craziest part is the boy knows how to work me with his charms.

5 comments:

  1. I guess what's on your boy's mind right now is:

    Anong kapalit, Mom?

    =)

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  2. Kapalit? Sermon sana LOL! For not keeping the certificate in a proper place, like between pages of books or something. 10,000 times ko na sinasabi. Hehehe. Tigas ulo. Pero dinaan ako sa kiss, kaya okay na. Mabait ako. :D

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  3. nyah pareho pala tayong virgo mom :D i'm having a hard time dealing with my toddler's kalat everywhere sakit sa ulo! feeling ko double stressed ako hahaha :D but a kiss and lambing from our kids are priceless :) sweet nga ng son mo eh :)

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  4. LOL, I can imagine the stress. Double-stress pa sa Virgo kasi we do that to ourselves mismo.

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  5. If you really are uptight and proud of it, then I welcome you with open arms because I can relate to people with those characteristics. Besides, they're so unappreciated in this world. especially since lots of people seem to care too much about being jerks.

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